We all want to live life after our own "rules". We always impose on ourselves and everyone around the ideal way of thinking. Most of the time we have an opinion to share with those around us. We advise them how they should live their lives whether they ask it or not.

We are growing with the idea that all around us is our reality, and we should live by it. We almost lose trust in our hearts because we are driven away by everything that our eyes see.

We gradually lose consideration of what brings value to our life while living it. We always manage to be organized and up-to-date when things are "imposed" on us. We do diligently our duty towards the society around us and less and less towards ourselves. Why can’t we all prioritize ourselves and embrace all experiences in our life just as they happen?

Because we have self-limiting beliefs that are kind of guiding our life. We usually limit ourselves to a certain amount of what we can achieve and how we can do it. We doubt ourselves most of the time, and, we choose to stay on the sidelines in case something "unpleasant" might happen. 

We always indulge in the same type of coffee or the same tea perfume and we hardly come out of our comfort zone. Have you ever asked yourself why we do that?

Because most of the time we let our fears take away our real identity. We are concerned about what could happen or how our life might change. We always have at the back of our minds the same idea that things cannot move in the direction we wish them to move because is impossible. 

How do we know that? How do we know that things wouldn’t move towards the direction we wish them to? 
Because we always tell ourselves that all things should be safe before we try them. We were "taught" that way, and we strongly believe it. Have you ever challenged yourself to try to do things differently? I presume you hardly allow yourself to try to do the opposite of what you are familiar with. It is okay. We all do that. 

We want to feel safe, to be comfortable. If we continue doing things that are familiar to us and never try to change our actions or our mindset will surely not help us evolve. 

When we open our hearts and put all our fears aside things begin to move forward. Try to change your routine sometimes. Maybe not your routine if you love it and keeps you healthy but at least try to change the way you do your daily routine.

If you take the same path when you walk, try to take a different one. If you go to the same place, try to go to a place you have never been before. If you love vanilla ice cream, try a strawberry flavour next time. If you travel by car, take the train next time.

Did you know that our brain has incredible neuroplasticity? Latest brain studies show that our brain neuroplasticity can reorganize new pathways, can create new connections, and in some cases, even build new neurons. 

We should always challenge the "traditional way" of thinking. The "ideal" way of thinking and doing things in different areas of life decades ago is not currently valid for our era. So, when you read or hear something, try to question it and make your own opinion. If you think it is too late to learn a new language, buy yourself the book that teaches you that language. If you love to run, try now and again to play tennis or any other sport. If you drink green tea, try white or black tea instead. Whatever you think might be uncomfortable at first to do, try and do it. 

Once you are in the situation or decided to do things differently you might be surprised by your newest experiences. It can be liberating, it can be even pleasant, and you might wish to experience it again. 

Do not let yourself be in the same situation you have been before. New experiences create new pathways, create new memories, and sometimes even new neurons.

Is it not wonderful? Why wouldn’t we allow ourselves to live the life we truly wish to live? The pathway to success is never easy, neither personal nor professional. 

We NEED to come out of our comfort zone and build our faith. We just have to tell ourselves regularly that all will be well in the end, regardless of the situation we are inviting ourselves to.

I believe that we haven't accessed all that needs to be accessed to live the best life as human beings. We never allow ourselves that luxury. We are even scared of the thought of how we will manage to live that amazing life without skills or knowledge. We don’t need to, my friends. We already have all the skills and knowledge in ourselves. Our innate wisdom will guide us.

Just allow it and make it happen. We have a long way, but once we start we will keep on moving. Nothing is easy at first, but with practice, all can be achieved. Change your mindset, remove all your self-limiting beliefs and change your life.